Please remember that this isBirth of a baby a mother and a family.However it is – where mum feels safe.Baby is safest when mum feels safe.She can then relax into being a mammal and open.Into love and calm and joy.As nature intended – all the hormones (no distress) and all will be well.The work has all been done before . .See the charts on what to do – set aside the time each night to touch and grow as a couple into more bonded love.The preparation may mean very little needs to happen – but let the body open and eject.The journey out . . Not even pushing!Fetal Ejection reflex Like fruit about to drop . .Left alone to do so . .Perfection